Personally, I hate long distance relationships. I was in one with the guy mentioned below and we never saw each other, rarely spoke, and didn't have anything to say to one another half the time. Granted, I still love him, but I think I'll wait until we can live in the same area. It works better that way.
Meeting people when you're a lazy bum that sits at home constantly
You need a partner that's a real homebody... and loner type.. This will probably be hard to find because, like you, they sit at home constantly.
- Try internet dating. If you're ugly or cant communicate textually, then you're screwed on that basis...
- Try going to a party for once in your life (don't worry.. you'll never have to do this again if you do it right the first time)... Become best friends with the biggest wallflower there. Most likely, they are a loner and therefore sit at home constantly like you..
- School/work is also a great place to make friends and life bonds
To be honest, I'll probably talk mostly about my own relationship... Or lack thereof.
My main problem/concern with relationships is loving people that are not able or willing to love me or not being enough for people. I'm kinda moody so I can be a hand full... >_>
Despite all this, I still claim to be deeply and madly in love with a man named Cory <3
<< We used to look a little something like this <3
Now, it's more like this >>
Where I'm emotional because I miss him like Hell and he's annoyed because I shouldn't be so obsessive when I'm the one that ended it in the first place.... u_u
Story time??? I think so....
Well, we met at school.. He was a super senior. I was a sophomore. He required another art credit and I just happened to like art, so we ended up in Drawing 2 together and wound up making **vv this vv**
Anyhow, We did things like talk on Facebook.. and went bowling (which I fail at.. so he won).. and I went to his birthday (where he flipped me on my side and dragged me down the stairs and stuff... lol. He's playful like that). He would bring me things at school -- things I really liked like cans of rootbeer or bacon which he missed the bus once making or extra cake from the party which I pretended was on fire.. and killing the cake people... >:D
Needless to say, I did more eating than drawing in that class... :)
Other days, he would be cranky and not talk to me.. or I would be tired and ignore him and it would piss him off. One of these days he decided to wipe blood on me.. Twas very awkward... O_e
Another one of these days when he had found something out about me that wasn't exactly decent, he spent a whole day talking to me about how I was "acting like a whore"... which royally pissed me off.... but it was understandable at the same time.. :/
And on May 11th, 2011 - he asked me out <3 *It was unbelievable with the things he had learned about me.. and I was hesitant.. because of a previous relationship and like I said... we're both kinda moody*
The first time we hung out as a couple -- outside of school -- we walked to the nearby grocery store because at the time he was a smoker and needed smokes... While we were there he got me a bag of gummy worms. :) And though it seems silly and stupid, I got extremely surprised at little things that were normal for couples because he just didn't seem like the type... like when I kissed him for the first time. I gave him a quick kiss before I left his house as if I were a shy little girl that had never kissed a boy before. Just one cute, soft peck on the lips, then I ran out and later he told me had I not kissed him he would've kissed me.
One of the most surprising actions was when he grabbed my hand and held it as we walked for the first time -- especially since he wears gloves every day to avoid touching other beings. After that, for me, sometimes, he would take them off.
Everything was calm in this way. It was beautiful, silent, still. We didn't do much.. Kinda just hung out, shared the music we liked, talked in the hallways at school. He would do sweet things like continue to bring me food and still kiss me when I was sick. <3
Another thing I found completely crazy was when he first said he loved me **June 6, 2011 <3* This was through text and I pretty much responded with confusion and unsure feelings, but when I asked if he regretted it because of my reaction, he said "why should I? ^_^". What was even more surprising was when he told me he loved me to my face... and I didn't know how to respond. It wasn't that I didn't love him.. I just didn't expect it... But he didn't listen to this. He just curled up, faced the couch back, and ignored me.. :/
Of course, it wasn't always bad. We had a lot of great times; We would usually just act like kids. We used to curl up together and watch old movies like the Nightmare Before Christmas, we would play Pokemon, sometimes we just hung out and did pretty much nothing, but my favorite was going to concerts. <3
However, it was meshed with a lot of me being jealous and quiet, him being jealous of my friend because she was in fact my ex girl friend who still liked me, Cory was smoking **even though he had promised to quit**, and at the end of the day I was in a bit of trouble with my mom for staying after my friend had gone home...